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Originally posted by PureGoldF2K1
When I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half this past March, I initiated it by saying I needed to take a break because of lots of other stuff going on in my life. I then moved on to a full break up. I did this so I wouldn't send him into shock by just flat out dumping him. The truth is, there had been other times in our near two years together that I had a lot of major shit going on in my life, but when I was truly into the relationship, the last thing I wanted to do is take a break from him because of other things in my life. Taking a break is never a good sign. 
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My ex and I of 7 1/2 months parted on similiar terms. He was a real jerk to me, but I was too nice to just flat out dump him, so I got him to agree to a break which lasted for about 2 weeks before I finally went through and dumped him straight out. I had friends cheering for me when I did that too was the sad part, he was that mean, yet he cried when I broke up with him. Odd how a guy can be verbally abusive to his gf for months and still cries over when he loses her. You would have though that he had no idea what he was doing wrong or something.
So yeah, I agree, taking a break usually isn't a good sign... but you can try and keep your fingers crossed, let us know what happens.
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