First let me say that I want to pledge grad chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. However, my family and a few friends/collegues EVEN MY HUSBAND, think that I am already a member! I attended a HBCU and stopped attending at the age of 19...when I came home I told everyone about a year later, I had pledged. Met Deltas, went to parties, dated Ques, wore para, even met a Delta from the school I suppose to had pledged at and because I had "fronted and met other Deltas and 'talked'", she challenged me and I passed! We became friends, met other Deltas, and I work at a school now (i'm 26) and the Deltas here know "of me" being a sister and do the call when they see me, etc. I have now received my undergrad and really want to become a Delta. There are grad chapters here but I am afraid someone may recognize me and be like "huh!

" So I was thinking about trying to in a city that has a grad chapter close to me other than my hometown. I have stopped "talking" Delta and I no longer have any para (took off keychain, car tag, etc.) and really want to be one FOR REAL. I guess my whole point of coming here is this.... what would you do if you recognized someone who claimed to have already been a sister years ago, sportin' 2004 as their pledge year or wanting to "pledge" PERIOD. I dont know....