female friend of boyfriend who comes off as really bitchy
My boyfriend has this female friend he has known for awhile. She is married and they have known each other for about 5 or 6 years. He talks very highly of her and how she has helped him out of a lot of jams. So here is the issue in a nutshell. She often is around because she and her husband are part of the "group" he hangs out with. My friend (who happens to be my boy's cousin) and I have noticed that she never ever talks to us when we are all together. She will sit down and talk to everyone even if they are sitting right next to us and we are having a conversation with them but she doesn't talk to us at all. I approached my boyfriend about it because it is very uncomfortable (especially when her and I are the only females at functions). He said that "she is just bitchy and does this to all females". I've tried saying hi to her and striking up conversation a few times, as has my friend and she continues to act like this (ignoring us). It is creepy too because I always see her staring at me and stuff and I am wondering what her deal is. Her husband is really sweet and funny and is always talking with us. My boyfriend also added "oh she is overprotective of her male friends because she doesn't want us to get hurt". It's too wierd for me though. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation and what did you do? I could see if she was like his sister, but she is just a FRIEND. (and no to the wiseasses there is no "romantic" history between my boy and her).
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