My fiance is 14 years older than me. We started dating when I was 24 and he was 38. He's made me happier than any guy I've ever been with. He knows how to treat a woman, and take care of me, and still let me be independent. We do have to think about the future a little more than other copules. Like, after we get married next year we wil start trying for kids immediately so he won't be too old when we have them. But, heck, I'll be 29 by then. And I do talk about what I'll do when I'm in my late 60's and he might be dead, so I get a little sad about that sometimes. But I'd rather have the next 40 years of our life together and spend 10-15 without him than never have been with him. Besides, by then I will have beautiful children and maybe grandchildren that he was a part of, too. And I have decided I will move to Memphis and work as the receptioninst at our National HQ!!!
It truly does totally depend on the couple. People always thinkn it's weird until they see us together. We just fit.
It is really fun to figure out what wach of us was doing in any given year. I was 1 year old when he lost his virgingity! He was graduating college when I was 6 (hey, he went 2 years early, I would have been 8!)!
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