Any sugestions, X-girl friend wants to b friends.
Ok this is what happaned. I was going with this one girl and things start to get bad. I'm a nice guy and im pretty aware of other peoples feelings and i didnt want to hurt the girl by jus telling her we needed to b apart. So when i finnal told her we needed to talk, she came over and i told her wut was up.
Then she jus does a 360 on me, she went from normal person, one second to, hyperventilating and super aware, then she backs up towards the only exit in the room and she is stairing me down with the crazyest look i hav ever seen in my life. That freaked me out; but she starts getting all energetic saying stuff like "no why do u wanna break up" and " r u saying ur not happy". The whole time she is blocking the door.
I was like ok i'll think about it another day and then she flipped again and was like ok good i'll c u later.
Needless to say i decided to break it off cuz she was "on one" then. But i never stopped talking to her like saying hi and stuff like that, and for somereason i got a felling that she still liked me, then on more than one occasion she calls me up totaly at random and says stuff like " i always wanted to marry someone like u", "my mom thinks that ur a really good guy, perfact for me", "one day when we get married we should..." and im like "huh?" did she forget we r not together ne more. So after she eventually got on my nerves which by the way is a very hard thing to do, I stopped talking to her and all together; even though i felt bad about that but that was wut it took for her to leave me alone.
Yeah and now my freaking concious has cought up to me, and I begain to try to become friends with her again cuz i felt bad for the way i treated her, becuz now i think she has changed so she should b cool now. (I'm not interested in getting back with her, thats never gonna happen, but i wouldnt mind just being friends with her though)
Any one got any suggestions as to how i can approach this new situation?
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