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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
I have met "THE ONE" in my dreams... Which goes to show folks that "THE ONE" was a figment of my imagination...
I do not consider myself so 2 dimensional that ONE size can fit my reality... In fact, I had to paradigm shift my whole perception of what I thought THE ONE would be in an excellent relationship.
Then I came to the realization that re-creating "THE ONE" in my mind limited my capacity to expose myself to "ONES" that are meant for me to encounter...
It was only until I got to that point that I got married to my husband...
How did I meet him? Through a mutual acquaintance who begged me to at least meet him and get to know him before I "write" him off...
Just goes to show you if I did not settle, I would still be in the same boat, 35 years old, single and lonely wondering where all the good men are in the wilderness of America...
What does "settling down" mean anyways?
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I like that - you said it very eloquently.