BSP'ers who are APO Brothers too

[daffodils]

I've got a few quesions for the BSP sisters who are also Brothers of Alpha Phi Omega:

1) which did you join first? why?
2) what did you find in one which complimented the other? (no ritual information, please)
3) why did you seek out the complimentary GLO?
4) do you wear insignia of both simultaneously? In what occasion? why or why not?

Thanks bunches!!