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Originally posted by cherrycola
This is probably going to sound very offensive to the orginal poster.
You need to get a life. constantly judging people by something so arbitary as looks is only going to give you superfiscal friends. You really need to consider judging people based on things such as personality, liked interest, etc.
Now I will admit to being somewhat self consious at times, but I don't chose friends based on looks. Of course I think all my friends are beautiful, and you may not agree.
How can you expect women to ever really gain equal footing with men in the "real world" if we always hold our selfs to such unrealistic views of perfection.
sorry I just get really pissed that women constantly feel the need to judge ourselves and teach younger women these same values!! 
I am done ranting.
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And I guess you were the picture of composure going through rush, knowing that the first impression your 18-20 year old potential sisters saw was the warm, fuzzy person you are inside, and not the scared, insecure college freshman who is far from home and trying to fit in? Wow. wish I was you.
why do some of you feel the need to attack potential members on this board? did you ever stop to think that they came here to ask a question that they feel is legit? it may come off pompous to you "seasoned" vets, or completely uninformed, but uh... I think that is why they "googled" this web site in the first place. and it really makes them feel positive about the Greek system when someone jumps all over them for phrasing a question wrong. not everyone is hip to "Greek Speak." Why? Because contrary to popular belief, there are other things to do in life than pledge.
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