Not my Sister

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I was really upset and hurt by a comment made to me by one of my sorority sisters recently.

At a party, she kept trying to get me to drink even though I explained over and over again that I do not drink. I even told her that it's for personal reasons I do not touch alcohol. She then tried to demean me by making fun of my no alcohol lifestyle and even asking me what kind of sister am I if I don't drink.

I was stunned that she would say this to me b/c I was not aware that drinking was a prerequisite to joining (*sarcasm*). I truly feel that either her or me joined for the wrong reasons.

Later, I was told that the only reason I was offered a bid (I COB'd late in the semester) was because the sorority was one member short of making quota. This just put me in tears b/c I don't know if this was true or not. I did join late but I thought that we got along so well and I felt at home with the girls.

Granted, she was pretty wasted when she was saying this but it hurt to hear b/c I've always been under the impression that you tend to get the truth from people when they are drunk. It impairs their judgment so they just blurt things out that should be kept quiet. I am now rethinking my reasons for joining and am really upset.

What should I do?