Most Kappa's, if they read the "pretty" Comment that was made by blu_theatrics, would and possible could take it as an insulte, however I am above that, I know and hope that you did not mean it that way. Kappa History shows us being as Diamonds(That is our symbol) not pretty boys?play boys etc...(FYI)
, so personally I do not care if anyone thinks that I am pretty or not.Even though I am very attractive, prettiness is over rated and misunderstood. The title was bestowed upon us in the 60's and 70's because of the way we dressed and carried ourselves; it is not apart of our history; it is an undergraduate "thing". As it was stated by one of the well spoken SGRho's in this forum that this ,as well as other comments made of all Greek org's, is indeed yet another stereotype. The difference and the truth of the matter is, most people expect Kappa's to be pretty/fine/very attractive other wise people would not say things that they do and it is contradictory, and I will tell you how. It seems to me, in Greekdom, that we do not want our group to be stereotyped but other groups are expected to live up to these false images, that what's sad! For example if you see an AKA that is not the stereotypical image that is expected of them, what do most people say? Oh my God why did they let her in...the same for Kappa Alpha Psi. But if you see someone from another male organization that has a more ruff appeal, what do you say? Nothing! Because certain orginizations have a stronger persona to carry because of these myths that are handed down line after line. The fact of the matter is that we are divided as Greeks as a whole. I am not bitter when I am not recognized, however I am not nor is any of my Frat is worried about any group claiming us as Frat; but "our" Brothers. However, we are one of the only groups that you can find with any other sorority if that particular chapter choses to be all over this country, as well as SGRho. Ladies, you are beyond the price of pearls and you are queenly women. Reguardless of the stereotypes, attitudes, or negativity; I will always respect when respect is given back, because when I was made I was given my diamond along with the knowlege, that no body but Jesus can love me better that I can....that's why I love myself! Yo Yo Yooooooo!
Peace and Blessings
Kasm
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