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Katie,
Hi, my name is Brandi. I kind of USED to know how you feel. When I first pledged, I felt the same way. I wasn't from around the area and I didn't know anyone there. One day, I invited one of my alpha sisters to go on a road trip with me. Recantly, she came, and she is now one of my very best friends in the whole wide world. After her and I bonded (she had the same problem) it was easier to feel more accepted with the group. After that both of us became very close to many of the other sisters. Sometimes, you have to just put your self out there and invite yourself. It is hard to invite everyone to go places, and I come from a small chapter. So, try to talk to one person. The next time you see a bunch of them hanging out in someone'e room, etc. jump on the bed and join in. If it doesn't get any better, talk to either the NMC and tell her how you feel. Part of her job are to make sure you don't feel isolated. I know when I was NMC, there were questions on the test each week about the relationship with your diamond sister and your pride. Hope this could be of some help and that things get better for you.
TT love,
Brandi
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