Amen to that Soror! I am 33 and I am in no way near marriage. I ended a 5 year relationship last year. At an age where my friends are married, getting married, have kids, etc., I am "without." And you know what, it is all good.
I have used this time to know me, love me, and get my house in order. Yes I too would like a companion and my compliment- but I would rather be patient and cautious of whom I choose to let into my life instead of rushing.
I have seen to many women hold on to a "piece" of man because they could not bare being alone. Not a good route to go. Cuz I tell you what, I really do cherish my freedom right now and I won't be miserable just to say I have somebody.
There is someone out there for all of us. It is just a matter of time and a matter of patience. When the time is right, you REALLy will know. I truly believe that.
pNc
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Originally posted by Discogoddess
Y'all! Calm down! Ain't nobody an old maid at 25, 26, 29...40! When you are in your groove, things may fall in place (in terms of choosing, not finding a husband), but being anxious won't help a thing. I got married at 29 1/2 years, but believe me, if it hadn't felt right, I would have been more than happy to wait until it was, either with him or someone else. Rejoice in your freedom and concentrate on being your best self...
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