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Originally posted by rho4life
While it's great that your frat was able to be a father first, there is a HUGE difference between being an expectant mother and an expectant father. Being pregnant is stressful enough without having to worry about joining an organization. I've seen single mothers go through their process, and it was HARD. But, I would be inclined to tell a pregnant woman it just wasn't her time.
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It is hard enough to balance sorority membership with motherhood when a woman has her child AFTER she joins. Doing it while one completes the membership process is way too stressful, (in addition to school and/or work) to be a worthwhile endeavor. I would be inclined to encourage a woman to seek membership after she has adjusted to motherhood.
While being part of a sorority would mean that the woman would have an additional support system in place, it is more important for a future mother to minimize stress.
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