When I went through formal recruitment in Fall '02 (I was a freshmen) I had my mind set on Phi Sigma Sigma. I met one of the girls bc she was dating one of my bf's fraternity brothers. Well, she told me about Formal Recruitment and I decided to go through that. Well, first night was only 30 minute parties, I clicked very well with Phi Sig and the sisters of AST. It wasn't till the 2nd night of parties that I started to realize where my home was. Yeah, I still loved Phi Sig (still do, great group of girls!) but AST and I clicked. Pref came and I was only invited back to AST. After their pref I knew were my home was. I did not suicide, I put Phi Sig as my 2nd choice. So yeah, I got my first choice.