Sister's Fiance=A Friends Little Sister Boyfriend

[Krisco]

Hey Ladies and Gents!

I have a bit of a problem, as the title states, one of my sisters has a dog, I mean a man, that is a piece of crap.

I will explain, I gave away some furniture to a friend. She didn't need it, and told me her younger sister needed it. Cool

As I have a truck with a bed on it, I said "Just tell her to get a man to come over with her so he can help us get it on the truck and take it off." Cool

She(the younger sister) called me back and mentioned that her boyfriend would come over with her and help. Cool

GUUURRRLLLS! When they got over to my house, and as I was introducing myself to said boyfriend, I took a double take, yelled "Willie!" and presumed to watch his jaw drop! Small world, huh?

To make a long story short, he called her(sis#1) before I could, she called me, I confirmed it, she covered for him and the wedding is still on.

I DO NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS FIASCO!


People are saying that I should be there for her, and this and that. Personally, I don't see how spending money($200.00) and standing in front of GOD pretending like I agree with this is 'being' there for someone.

Ladies, this is not the first time he has been 'caught' by a family member. My other sister(business partner) has a goddaughter. This childs mother was inadvertently carrying on a sexual relationship with "willie" about 6 mos ago! We only found out about it because she mentioned that she met this great guy at work, same place that "willie" worked(key word--worked) at. As soon as sis#2 instantaneously and suspicously asked "what's the guys name?" her friend was like, say it with me ladies...WILLIE! The same damn willie. Unfreakinbelievable.

She(sis #1) stayed with him, didn't believe us or sis#2's friend.

Are we wrong, sis#2 and I?
I mean are these not signs????

I feel like we are the ones in a difficult position. We have came to the realization, that no matter what we see, say, she is not gonna leave this a-hole. I am fine with that, but I have to draw the line in the participation factor. I will attend, however.

Any comments are welcome.

I just feel bad for her and wish that the 'small world' scenario could have been to her advantage.

Feelin' Sorry in Arkansas.