Formal Recruitment?

I have been hanging out with a friend of mine a lot more lately this semester and I'm glad. What does this have to do with me and potential sorority life? We seem to run into her sorority sisters everywhere and when we do, we end up hanging out with them. So I've gotten to know more girls from XYZ and they seem like a great bunch of girls. My friend has invited me to a COB event tomorrow night and I'm walking into it not looking at it as recruitment, but acting as if it is. I have no idea where I stand with the sisters of this chapter so I'm just going to go with the flow and let things work out the way God wants them to.