I am wondering if there is anyone out there that's been in a similar situation or can offer me any advice ...
Right now I am finding myself in one of the most difficult positions of my life thusfar. My sorority is essentially doing everything in their power to get rid of me and kick me out. I cannot express how sad & upset I am over all of this, especially to know that the very girls that I have proudly called my sisters for the past three years are the very same 'sisters' that want me to leave. I am a senior in my university program & in my chapter, though I did take one year off of school. I joined the sorority at 22 and am now 25. The exec & the chapter advisor are telling me that it's an age thing, that some of the girls can't relate to me, and also that my actions have been inappropriate on too many occasions Funny thing is that there is a 24 & a couple of 23-year olds still around who aren't being forced out, and about not being able to relate - if you were to ask ANY of our new members, or sophomores for that matter, they would strongly disagree!! My heart is breaking right now ... I know that I have made some mistakes (3 years ago - before I ever joined), but I also know have put my whole self into the chapter & that I've been a good sister & friend whenever anyone's ever need me. All of my outside friends have long since graduated, and my few remaining pledge sisters are not in positions of authority. The girls running our chapter joined in the year that I took away from school.
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Being Kicked out
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