Trying to decide if he is the right guy to ask to formal?

[annice22]

I'm thinking of asking this one guy I sort of kind of seen earlier last school year to Formal (if that makes any sense). Well there are a few issues with this decision. First I need to find out if he's single. Second he use to and probably still uses drugs. A lot of his brothers in his fraternity does (not all but a few). So, I need to make sure he is clean.

The other problem is we do not really speak anymore so I need to start speaking with him again to become friends again. We stopped speaking because he was a total jerk over the summer and was really drunk and keep sexaully harrassing me at the bar over the summer. He appologized but then did it again. So I stopped speaking to.

Maybe many of you will say that this friendship is and was doomed and I should just try to find another formal date. But I guess I still kind of like him and would like to go to my formal with him if he is available.

So I called him today and left him my new phone number not sure if he will call but I sure I will probably see him around some time before formal. Formal is not until April so I have time to kind of talk to him.

I don't know what should I do?

I will update everyone with my progress if any?