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Originally posted by HBADPi
When I was dating my first boyfriend I asked him to get tested because although he was my first, we had discussed his previous relationships and I was a little worried. Even though I was on the pill, there were a handful of times that..well...the condom never actually got the chance to make an appearance. He got really upset and pissed off that I would even suggest he had something and just like mr. cashmere procrastinated around it left and right until finally we broke up and I went and got myself tested just to be sure. I kicked myself after the fact that I should have been more forceful, take the sex away if you have to until he gets the hint and gets off his ass and gets tested.
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this is basically exactly my situation! i gave him the ultimatum last night...and he didn't like that one bit. he did make his appointment today though. it just concerns me that it took this damn long since i've mentioned it for the past 2 months.
and yes, decadence, he really was my first! it was definitely a curtesy gesture on my part...although you just really never do know...
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