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Originally posted by Chi_ZETABBW:
In reading several post a day, I often wonder how old are the people who come to Greekchat and post? I feel very old when I read post like I'll never get divorced, I'll never commit adultry, I want to join a SORORITY because they are said to have pretty women, I'll challenge(which includes fighting) anyone who I think is not a part of my org.,etc.
Well I'm 36/Chicago/ I enjoy GC because it helps me relax when I get off work in the morning.
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Well I am 24 years old. A few of my opinions have changed the last two years since entering full adulthood; however, while I'm sure that I might view some things differently in the next ten years, some things may not change because it is my beliefs, convictions, morals, etc. I don't necessarily think it is a sign of youth to say one will never commit adultery. I'm not married but I have never cheated on anyone nor will I ever. I am a person who tries hard to stand by her word. My dad always said' A man is only as good as his word'. And I've learned that to be very true. So if I say I'm going to be in an exclusive relationship, then that's what I do. Also some people take marriage vows very seriously and are strong enough to adhere to those words through all things. If it's to the point of wanting to cheat, then I've always said, 'Leave first'. Don't even let it get to the point of hurting other's spirit as well as your own. And I definitely don't think that means one is just young or immature. That's just their values or beliefs. However, I will agree that the other things you pointed out may be a sign of inexperience and immaturity.
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#10 Sigma (Clark Atlanta University) Spring 1999
Currently: MAL, Southern Region
[This message has been edited by DST Love (edited June 13, 2001).]