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wedding question?
OK I did not want to do a hijack; so here is a new wedding thread.
I have two really good friends that are both getting married. Neither of them has had a clue when they were getting married; up till now. One of the girls just set the date for May (small wedding) and wants me to be a bridesmaid. It is in PHX, AZ but I just found this out yesterday. I have to pay for my dress and airfare. The issue is that is Memorial Day weekend which makes is expensive and I have finals the following week. I told her that I most likely can not come. She wanted to know why, I told her 1) I am poor, 2) You gave me short notice 3) I am still in school.
She is mad at me now.
Now my second friend just set the date too. Her wedding is June of next summer. Friend #2 also wants me to be a bridesmaid, but her wedding is in Oregon (never been there). The thing is she is willing to pay for my plane ticket, and the dress that she is thinking of having me wear is like $100 (which I can afford)
Now friend # 1 is furious that I told friend #2 that I will be there. Every one including the grandmother explainned why I can go to wedding # 2 and may not make # 1.
What should I do to have her understand, she now hates me and the other girl (who was also going to be a bridemaid)
Chris
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