Between ABC and XYZ

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So rush is currently underway at my school. One of the girls who's rushing is a junior (Rita Rushee). She went through rush before the first semester of her freshman year but couldn't pledge the group she wanted to (XYZ) because she didn't have the grades for it. Now she's going through rush again the second time around. She's friends with some of my sisters and some XYZ's, and the first night of rush, in one of our rush rooms, she came up to one of my sisters and flat out told her "you know I only came to rush for you or XYZ." If I'm not mistaken, this was our former president and current pledge mom that she said this to. We're all really taken aback by her statement. Seeing as this is her second time around rushing, you'd think she'd know a lil bit better what to say and what not to. Also, the VP of recruitment is a KLP, and "Rita" knows her and apparently after our first night of rush, Rita went up to her and told her that she needs to talk to us about how we're conducting rush and what needs to be changed. This really is none of a rushee's business. And the truth of the matter is that neither us nor XYZ really want to give her a bid in the first place. Has anything like this happened to anyone before? How would you handle it?