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Well...
Pesonally, I love sex (with my man)!!! I'm a firm believer in sampling the milk before buying the cow. I mean, really, who wants to get stuck with a cow that can't "produce"? Having said that, as much as I love having sex I have been walking towards the path of righteousness...notice I said towards the path and not in it. So if my boyfriend came to me right now and said that he want to stop having sex until we are married I wouldn't have a problem with it. It would be hard, but I would give it up in a minute. I don't know that I can start off that way (meaning dating a man who is celibate) because I got to know what a brother is working with before I can commit to it. Sex is a very big part of a relationship and if you aren't sexually satisfied I really believe that problems will arise. As far as a man being "suspect" if he doesn't want to have sex, I feel the same way. Especially if the brother is in Atlanta, GA. Whenever I meet a guy in Atlanta, "Are you gay/bisexual?" is always the first thing that I ask. If they immediately get offended by the question, that to me is deserving of a red flag.
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