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I have no clue what anyone's real intentions were when they wrote anything on this thread, but make no mistake:my 5 adopted daughters and my 4 biological daughters are EQUALLY mine!
I can't imagine the hurt we would feel if Pi Phi, AOII, or Chi O announced to my adopted daughters who haven't rushed yet that they didn't count as legacies. Luckily, they haven't; Chi O readily accepted BlazerCheer as Ballerina's sister and legacy although obviously they aren't blood-related. The AOIIs where my 4th daughter (she's adopted and Asian) will attend school have already contacted her and want her to come visit.
Most adoptees won't be obvious as such--no one will even know they're adopted during rush unless someone from their hometown knew it. Probably all of us have sorority sisters who were adopted and we never knew. I mean--adoption shouldn't even be an issue! I am just shocked to think that a chapter would even bring it up.
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