bridesmaid issue

[angelic1]

ok... i have been debating this in my head and still havent figured out what to do..

one of my friends asked me recently to be in her wedding.. sounds nice yeh and i think it would be fun.. but the problem is this..

first, i am kind of hesitant bc of money issues right now.. i just graduated and already told another friend months ago that i would be in her wedding in june (so already spending tons on this wedding)..

then, she had already asked all the other bridesmaids months ago.. i almost feel like she asked me bc someone else backed out or something along those lines..


i think if she had asked me when she asked everyone else i wouldnt be so hesitant despite money.. i would just find a way to make it work.. i am just unsure what to do.. would you feel wierd being asked months after everyone else... ??