PLease keep in mind that you are on the outside looking in. There are some behaviors of Greeks that you cannot understand until you cross. Many have to do with certain rules and regulations as well as codes of conduct about which you may know nothing. An interest may interpret these bahviors as rude, stuck up or standofish when that may not be the case.
If you really want to be Greek, you need to look past that into the foundation of the organization and try to ascertain it's ideals and principles.
Also, as my soror indicated, there are people who are just plain unapprochable in EVERY aspect of life. Before we were Greek, we were people. Also as a previous reply indicated, the person was stuck up BEFORE she pledged, so more than likely she is STILL stuckup. However, I would like to say that the pledge process (now MIP) should help you as an individual to grow and mature so that you project the best self in representing the organization.
So, stay true to what you want and know that when/if you cross into the Greek world, you will gain knowledge and understanding.
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