I have read each and every one of your responses and, again, thank you. I don't know really why I feel like this is such a big step for me. I guess I have another 3 1/2 years here and I know that once a girl has a reputation it is hard to shake.
Can I ask two more specific questions?
1] I think I read in some of the rush questions here that if someone decides to try and join a sorority, they need to be careful about how they act because you never know whose watching. Even though most of the sorority women who answered my question were supportive of me staying in the house, is there a chance that if I decide to go through recruitment next year it will be held against me?
2] The concensus of the guys seems to be that it's okay as long as it's a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. That's what my boyfriend says too. I'd really love to hear from more guys their opinion on that please?
I really do WANT to stay at his house with him. I just want to make sure what I WANT to do and what I SHOULD do are one and the same.
Thanks again! You are awsome!
Caitie
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