hate your chapter....

[MTSUGURL]

I am sorry that you are so discouraged with your chapter right now, and I really hope that things get better. That being said, I don't think that saying that you hate your chapter or discussing the lack of respect you receive with pledges is the way to fix things. I honestly believe that no one in another chapter on your campus should know that you are that upset with your chapter. This is your brotherhood, and problems in your chapter should remain in your chapter. One of our standards says that talking negatively about our chapter or a sister is not allowed, and believe it or not, we follow that. If a group of girls can make sure that problems are confronted and solved, I know a group of guys can. Guys typically are not as catty as girls when problems arise. I am thoroughly impressed by your commitment to your fraternity, and also by the fact that the recognition isn't that important to you. I really hope things turn around, and I encourage you to begin delegating things and saying, "Hey, I kind need some help with *something specific* and I think you'd be great at it."