In light of how easy it is to catch a case....In situations like this, I should just be direct. I just don't get why a woman would touch me sexually and not want to do it. If a guy was sucking your chest or fingering you, wouldn't you jump to the conclusion that he wants to have sex?
I don't know if it's a game or what. I didn't wanna be a spoiled sport. Most of these women I ended up hittin a few more times anyway...so I didn't feel like I was a rapist. People throw the term rape around to easily. It messes it up for the real vics.
In the end (for my own safety) I'll just see what's up before hand...if a woman woun't let me cut on my 1st advance, then I'll boot her out before she even has a chance to try play games