I agree with what Diva7401 said. Even though I'm in a service sorority I am a SF for Alpha Kappa Alpha and have been pursuing membership for a while now. I frequent this board quite often but normally don't post. More often than not, I just read the posts and responses, and take in the advice and information that way.
I too have noticed the downright nasty attitudes of SF's that come in the room. They don't ask for suggestions or advice-rather, they DEMAND the answer they want, even though they won't get it. Quite simply, if you're not a member there are things that you won't be told. It's like that with Gamma Sig-I'm a member and there are things about Gamma Sig that I won't tell you. Therefore, don't get an attitude about it! Rather, if this is the organization that you want, all the answers will come when it is time to. I understand that completely with AKA and more importantly, I respect that. I'm also aware that this board doesn't even need to be here and there are members of AKA that take the time to guide us sisterfriends in the right direction. Just the fact that this board is here is a blessing!
I would like to thank all the AKA members and SF's that show a common courtesy to each other and are respectful of each other. And as a SF myself, everyone has answered my questions and helped me in my pursuit of this great sorority!
In Service,
gamma_girl52
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