Like myself, I know that alot of SF dont know what is disrespectful and you dont know until you ask your question. I know the little things as expressing your opinion can be disrespectful to some members of your oganization. I think that we all learn from experience because experience is the best teacher. I know that in my experiences with certain forums and sites, some memebers of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated tend to "jump" down SF throats when they ask a question that the sister friend may feel that the question is innocent. That is why some SF tend to get on the defensive when someone replies to their question. I dont think that it is because they are not getting the info that they want, but part of it is in the manner in which the question is answered. SF must to come correct when they ask questions. If you dont ask a question properly in in the correct manner, you can expect the same answer to the question you put out there. I say think about what you wanna say before you type it. Try to look at things from all angles and that way you wont take it too personally, if it is not the answer that you expected.
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