Jello wrestling?!?
Self-pimping? Please, I was doing neither when I helped with Pike rush (where I did happen to be the sweetheart). The women dressed up in pin attire and just hung out. We played pool, watched TV, got to know the guys as well. Mostly we hung out with each other, ate some free food, and that was it. We weren't around any selection process. And there were no female PNMs at these events so there was no chance of that being a problem. In fact, there were usually women from 2 or 3 different sororities there and we hung out together.
If guys are bringing women in to do degrading things that's one thing. But come on, girls clean up their houses, put out the favors and pictures from their socials, and work their butts off on the skits. Do any of those things show female PNMs what the chapter's true sisterhood is about?! Not every female PNM picks a house because of "the wonderful sisterhood" - often it's because of the fun stuff they do or the beautiful house they live in. In truth, I was always hanging around the Pike house with my sisters. If a guy decided to go Pike, he was probably going to see us a lot. How is that so different that us girls putting out scrapbooks and pictures of what we do a lot in our houses?
I just hear a lot of people thinking this is SUCH a big deal, and on my campus at least, it wasn't. No nudity, no scandals, nothing exciting really.
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