My daughters know a lot about Delta Zeta and what it means to me and they have had their share of "DZ Legacy" items! But I also have a sister in another sorority and several good friends in yet other sororities so they have many good role models to look up to and that makes me happy
If they want to join Delta Zeta, that's great. If they want to join another sorority, that's great, too! Either way, they'll still get tons of letter goodies and a big bouquet with the appropriate flowers sent to their dorm rooms on bid day. The only difference, I guess, is that if one or both goes DZ I could conceivably be there for their initiation (mom gets all mushy and pauses to wipe away a tear)
My 6 year old did tell my husband and me a few weeks ago that she couldn't decide if she wanted to go to the Naval Academy like Daddy or if she wanted to be a Pitt DZ like mommy. Oh well, she has lots of time
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