Best of the Best

There is a certain BGLO that i have been raised within and revered as long as I can remember, my aunt is an illustrious and very published member where we come from, For a while i've been anticipating one day being a member but now as a senior in highschool with tons of college friends, ranging from ages 18 and up i have become extremely aware of this certain sorority that seems to be extremely for the most part talked about (badly) with an edge of jealousy in whom ever seems to be speaking to me at the time. Phrases like "they think they're all that" , "they act like they're God's gift to the fellas" have been shot and it increasingly makes me interested in seeing what they're all about and experiencing if there is true sisterhood behind the org. i am a serious over achiever and if these girls are so on cue that they're criticized in tones of jealousy i'm wondering if a change would be in order i'm very loyal to the sorority i was raised around but second best is not good enough for me....and i'm wondering what to do