My big sucked. He was a good guy, but sucked as a big brother. He was "too busy". Never let me know anything (there's more but I can't get into it now). So, a couple of other guys sort of adopted me as a little because he was so bad. If I messed up they talked to me about it, if my grades were slipping they helped me get my stuff straight. They helped me a ton.
I was close to my little though, mostly because of my big. I made sure he wasn't messing up and if he was, fixed it. We still talk and always have fun together. We can definitely get ignorant with the best of em.
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