Question for the girls about dating

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Originally posted by absolutuscchick
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Ok, that really always weirds me out...I have to say that I have a guy friend like that and I'm always like wait...is he just being nice or does he think that we're on a date or something? Maybe I'm the only one who thinks that's weird though...any opinions?

One of my best freinds is like that...even when I was out with him and his ex-gf, he wouldn't let me pay! That's just how some guys are...I know I have offered to pay more then once, but I already know not to push it once he says no...but I will make it up in other ways that aren't money related (like giving him a hand on a paper, etc). THere has been times however, where I just put down some money anyways! There are guys like that, and I've learnt that arguing over it dosen't pay...
In terms of a date, when the guy pays it's nice, but I've always been the type that prefer to split things...ethier split everything evenly or he pays for dinner you pay for the movies, etc. My ex and I never did agree on that (he always believed he should pay even if he didn't really have the $$).