What's that cliche'?
If you let it go and it returns, it's yours?
That's not the exact wording, but you should get the point.
Storms come and storms go, are you willing to weather the storm or is your significant other?
Seems like you need to get your "problems" corrected, then "come back", if it's not too late or if she will have you.
At any rate, good luck!
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