I'm close with my big and 2 of my littles. I didn't choose my big, but he was assigned to me because he was a little zany & wild, and I was fairly reserved. My pledge ed actually said they matched us in the hopes we would balance each other out! We actually got to be pretty close, and closer as we have gotten older. The funny thing is he just made Police Detective!
I never could have anticipated that! I usually get to visit with him 1-2 times a year.
My first little and I are super close, and I email him and visit occasionally (he lives about 4 hours away). My second little lives in Atlanta (10 hours drive from here), so I only see him every 2 years or so, but we email. I mistakenly accepted a little my senior year (well, I was a 5th year Super Senior!) and I just didn't have the time to spend with him like I did the others. I felt really guilty about that. He and I aren't close, and I haven't heard from him since he graduated.
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