Sisterfriend Radar

[MsFoxyLoxy77]

Why does it seem like many non-sisterfriends on my campus are training to build up a "Sisterfriend Radar?" As times have changed it seems to me that events where sisterfriends and sorority members could converse are being intruded upon by individuals whom absolutely have no interest in the organization. I can remember going to an event my freshman year and the majority if not all the girls present were interested. Those that weren't interested were atleast mindful of the fact that interests were probably at the sorority function and were atleast hush hush on who they saw at the event. Now I know many of these events are open to the public, in fact, many of these events are actually services to the public--but its quite disturbing when I hear from a fellow sisterfriend that a distant acquaintance approached her and asked her "how was the tea last night?" I can remember that I was at a campus wide student entertainment party and I heard an acquaintance of mine say f*** those IGs. The acquaintance was directing her comment at three girls who had left the room minutes ago. Now, the acquaintance did not know then (but I suspect she knows now) that I am a sisterfriend, so I asked her how she knew those girls were IGs (I knew them to be fellow sisterfriends) and she told me "people talk." It just seems to me that a lot more people even if drawn to the interesting events put on by the sorority are being TOO "mindful" of who they see at these events in an ongoing effort to sharpen their "Sisterfriends Radar" and possibly out or harm even very discrete sisterfriends if they feel provoked or for no reason at all.

I'm interested to hear other opinions on this subject.