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Originally posted by darling1:
sunnydays96, i get the sense that your response was indirectly posed at me. i have been interested for a very long time and i have learned that on the one hand you have to look at seeking membership as a business. if the business has a hiring freeze, i am not going to sit around waiting for the freeze to be over. i would look for something else or stay in my current position. i have talents, assets, goals etc. that i want to reach and i am looking for a 'company' that will allow me to demonstrate them.
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I'm just stating my opinion about the question asked and the responses given. If my views coincide with your thoughts then yes, you may say they are indirectly addressed to you and/or other women who think the same way or differently. I don't know you, so I don't know what you would do. I'm just stating what I have seen. You were being honest and so was I.
I don't believe that joining a sorority is like looking for a job- just posting your resume to anything that looks good and hoping that someone will decide to hire you eventually. Joining a sorority in my opinion is a LIFE LONG decision, that's how these orgs. remain ongoing. One can do public service anywhere, however there are more aspects to a sorority than the services provided. That is why they are actively pursued. One should do their research before hand and come to a ULTIMATE decision as far as which one is the right one for them.
It just doesn't sit well with me to have someone say their all about one org, but when things don't go as planned, switch up and say "well _______ (color-pink, red, or blue) looked better on me anyway".
As 12dn94dst stated, there are "tons of other public service organizations" out there in which one could put their assets towards. Hey, interested women can shop around there, but not in my sorority.
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