I think your main problem is getting your name out to the student community. PNM's may be interested in your group if they knew you existed, especially at such a big school.
If your greek advisor would let you, see if you can hold some other interest parties before recruitment begins. And its not as important to a have a house "per se", but if one of your sisters lives in an apartment, make that your designated spot to have things.
One thing I found is that pnm's don't like board games or anything that can be construed as competitive. They feel as if they are in an awkward position-"if i win, i will feel bad and maybe the sister won't like me for it"- I find it better to go to the movies together, go to someplace like Dairy Queen to get ice cream and chill out, or have girls over to watch TV shows- like "friends night" or "Real World" night or something like that and have pizza and soda and stuff. As long as this stuff isn't seen as hazing at your school. Just let the pnm's buy all their own share of stuff.
PM me if you have any other questions.
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