what did you not like about rushing?

[trisigmaAtl]

I didn't (and still don't) like the rivalry that flares up between chapters. we're a small school so EVERYTHING gets around, I don't feel like it's as bad with my pledge class or the one above it, but there are a few upperclassmen girls in two of the chapters (mine included) who always like to point the dirty rushing finger or talk bad about the other sorority or make up stories that just aren't true!!!! I don't feel this rivalry and I know that there are members of the other chapter who don't either, but somehow it always get stirred up and creates a tension that has to be hidden from the pnms. I'm hoping that this fall won't be this way, I know that my chapter has made an active choice not to say anything negative about the other chapters so hopefully things will be better. It's just the one part of the fall that I am NOT looking forward to!