Well, I'm a little, no maybe really frustrated with my sorority that I am in.
Hypocritical is one word that I can describe how I've felt about my sorority for quite awhile now. I've been a pretty active member for about 3 years in the sorority and been good in terms of behavior or social conduct. I want to stick it out for one more year so I can make it to my full 4 years and go alum, but I don't know if it's worth it anymore. In my eyes, and a couple of other girls in the sorority can agree with me, I do not see sisterhood in our house. Sisterhood is about helping each other grow by being there for one another, even if one has done bad. The thing about sororities sometimes, is that the organizantional/political side sometimes can be more important to a house more than what we are truely about - sisterhood. I know that a sorority needs to be political at times to keep the sorority organized and strong, but when people take their positions to the head and overabuse them, and put their political power over sisterhood, it sucks. I see drama not only in formals, but in philantrophy events, sisterhood events, etc. over stupid shiznez. I can honestly say that I have gained 3 close friends from being in this sorority, but those 3 close friends are dissaffiliated from the sorority. Right now, I don't have one single best friend in the sorority (not even my big or lil sis, nor can I see any of they apart of my wedding. And believe me, I have tried, but sometimes, the "fakeness" sticks out in some people, and I have seen it. I have so much to say and the whole story behind why I feel that I want to disaffiliate, but I don't want to write it on GC. If anyone can give me advice... or has free time to listen to the rest of my story please reply....
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