[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sexy Mocha:
[b]And saying "I have issues with unmarried mothers, especially those trying to join my sorority" DOES NOT sound condescending? I've had this same conversation with my friend hundreds of times. I find that some people like to put degrees on what they believe is wrong and right...I call it the "Pick and Choose" Syndrome. It's where, let's say, you can condemn a woman who sleeps around...or someone that has premarital sex....(Because you don't do it). BUT...you smoke weed or you drink all night and get up and go to church a few hours later. The latter, however, is not seen as being on the same degree as the former...because you know that's what YOU do.
Very good point, I will try to not to add fuel to the topic of unwed mothers but I truly can't see how that is an indication of the work one will do or the type of soror one will be for Alpha Kappa Alpha!
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