bonds within the chapter

[TexasAGD]

Are there members in your fraternity or sorority that you do not talk to? If so, is it becasue you choose not to or because they don't want to? I just wanted to know because when I was a member, there were a couple of girls that didn't give a sh*t about me and vice versa. Probably not because they didn't like me, but because they were just closer to some of the other girls. We just saw each other in chapter meetings and functions and that was it. Is this common in other chapters? Also, after reading threads with chapters at 150+ members, how can one get to know each other? I see it as more of a couple of small groups within a large group, and if your not in any of it, then don't even bother talking to them. Just like high school all over again.