What would you do if?

[Shine]

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So, I was in a long distance relationship that was kind of "put on hold" until he moves back close.

We kept up a lot of the flirting and affection, but it became really platonic.

Lately he's been obviously distancing himself from me, and telling me that he can no longer afford time on the phone and is too busy to IM.

There was never really any true closure to the relationship.

Then last night I was talking to one of my good girlfriends here and she was telling me about how she was having a little long distance tryst with my ex complete with long phone calls. Now, I can't blame her or anything, she didn't become my friend until after he and I had split, but I still feel like total shit about this.

So. What would you do? Is there anything I can do? Am I wrong in feeling betrayed and hurt and really damn schitty about this?