Hello Ladies of AKA and SFs:
AKAtude:
Well said. It does boil down to personal feelings and nothing else. Following instincts will never steer you wrong. If you thought he was gay and he wasn't then you can always say "Well, I can't deal with a brothah all up in my Plumeria from B&B anyway so whatever."
I like a manly man also and don't appreciate homophobes, but a man can usually tell when another man is gay also. Just as a woman can tell if a woman is gay.
There are mannerisms that are red flags to either gay-ness or an oppen-ness to exploring gay behaviors.
Sad to say that if a woman takes your man, you can compete with that BUT a woman cannot compete with another man. It is impossible...we simply don't have the...uhm...proper...tools!!!
I would bail QUICKLY if I had to question it, too much risk involved.
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