What's a lady to do?

[intyme]

Greetings Members of the Forum!
I'm not a member of this organization, but I hope that I will receive some answers to a question that I have been pondering for quite a while.
I have noticed that on my college campus, the members of this sorority do not conduct themselves like ladies. As a matter of fact, I have seen members of this same sorority sitting on opposite sides of the bleachers during basketball games,not speaking to one another when they pass each other on the street,and many more things that are not sisterly.
My concern is: I would like to be a part of this organization, but should I ? Based on the actions I have seen of the current members, I 'm quite hesitant.