After the Love is Gone

[blackcoffee]

I don't post too often but I'm in a dilemma right now and I'm not sure what to do.

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now, but I am unhappy. I find that I'm more angry than happy when I'm with him these days. I don't know if he's just gotten so comfortable or what, but he doesn't compliment me anymore, no thank you's for doing nice things like cooking dinner, washing his clothes...just nothing. When I try to talk to him about it, he just says he doesn't want to talk right now.

Things used to be so WONDERFUL with us - he was my night in shining armor. Now, he's just the friend I wish I never met. A part of me wants to work it out but another part of me wants to jet. I'm just really feeling down and depressed right now.

How do you deal when the love is gone/lost?