Dear darling1,
Thank you for the word of encouragement.
I keep in contstant prayer about staying a virgin because I find it especially tough as a "frat boy" because a lot of my brothers are QUITE promiscuous.
In the end, I stay comfortrably abstinent because I realize that God sees that behavior as correct conduct just like the State Governments see abstaining from robbery as correct conduct. You could do what you want to do as long as you realize the penalities and consequences that you must reap. God, as well as the governments, clearly set down these principles very clearly, and it eases me to see that a standard of correctness does indeed exist in a performance-based way.
God Bless you at every juncture.